Caroline Presno wrote an article for Yahoo Personals and it had a very interesting title:
Ugh, It's Another Valentine's Day and I'm Still Single. This is very true in my case. LOL. The article listed down some practical and empowering things to do to tone down the “Ugh” feeling tomorrow, and in the coming days when everything around gets syrupy and mushy. Here's the complete list and my thoughts about the items:
1. Wallow, But Just a Little. I have every right to wallow. The author discussed that it is important to acknowledge your feelings. It’s a bit sad not to have someone to share the mushiness and the
kilig moments, but what the heck.
*Wallowing mode*
3…2…1.
Done!
2. Watch "Love Actually". I haven’t seen this movie. The author said that it is one of the perfect flicks to watch this season because it shows that other kinds of love are just as important, such as the love of family and friends.
I actually started my Valentine movie marathon last weekend.
Somewhere In Time and
The Lake House are some of the titles in the marathon, and I still have four titles left.
3. Go on a Trip. I'll be doing this with my Holga in tow. Now, the perfect place to go to...
*thinking mode*
My V-Day will also be a Holga day. I hope I can get some candid shots of the festivities tomorrow. :)
4.
Re-energize Your Relationship Search. Wow. This is something big. Um...
5. Ask Someone Out. This is one thing that I have learned to do recently: ask my guy friends out. But it seems that not all my guy friends are game to go out with a girl whom they do not have plans on dating. I've argued about this "boy-girl issue" with a friend of mine whom I thought would not have reservations about it. He explained that it's a BIG thing when the girl is the one who sort of initiated, for example, checking out a movie. He explained a lot of things which I always hear from guys. He defended that he has no issue about these things, yadah yadah, yadah...even though its clear that he and she are only friends, it boils down to one thing: He will not go out with a girl unless he has plans to date her. Gah!
6. Cuddle Up to Something Warm and Fuzzy. Thank God for Mommy Brush and my blankie!
7. Eat Some Dark Chocolate. Black chocolate is good for the heart and has antioxidants which is good for the body, and I heard that it has a powerful effect on people's endorphins, so you'll be in a happy mode all day. I hope I can find a bar of Meiji's Dark Chocolate with Almonds tomorrow :)
8. Don't See the World as One Big Happy Couple. Yeah, I totally agree with this. And I would not elaborate anymore.
9. Remember This Is Just ONE Valentine's Day. This last one is for those who already had romantic relationships, which I cannot fully relate to. LOL.